In his book "The Obstacle Is the Way," Ryan Holiday emphasizes that individuals often shift blame for their setbacks onto external factors such as bosses, the economy, or politicians. This tendency to externalize failure can lead to a feeling of helplessness, where individuals perceive themselves as victims of circumstances beyond their control.

However, Holiday argues that the true culprit behind setbacks is often one's own attitude and approach to challenges. By recognizing that personal mindset plays a crucial role in overcoming adversity, individuals can shift their perspective and learn to turn obstacles into opportunities for growth and success.