In "Why Not Me?", Mindy Kaling emphasizes the importance of empowering young girls. She urges them to recognize their strength and individuality, rather than seeing themselves as victims or relying on the perceptions of others. Kaling challenges the notion that girls need saving, encouraging them to embrace their confidence and capabilities.

She highlights the need for support and guidance, but stresses that girls should not define themselves by the limitations imposed by society or by the well-intentioned advice of adults. Instead, Kaling inspires them to see themselves as powerful individuals who can shape their own destinies.