We're in a transient state - why hate our present selves? Let's save the energy for when we are eighty, when we are perhaps above, or beyond, changing. Then we can hate, if hate we must.
In Ruth Reichl's book "Tender at the Bone: Growing Up at the Table," she reflects on the idea of being in a transient state in life. She emphasizes that rather than harboring negativity towards our current selves, we should embrace our ongoing growth and transformation. The suggestion is to reserve our criticism and energy for when we have reached a point in life where change may no longer be possible.
By focusing on self-acceptance during our evolving journeys, Reichl encourages readers to appreciate the present rather than dwell on imperfections. This perspective invites a more compassionate view of ourselves in the here and now, advocating for understanding and patience as we navigate through various phases of life.
