...what good people can do in the face of great sorrow. We help some time pass for those suffering. We sit with them in their hopeless pain and feel terrible with them, without trying to fix them with platitudes; doing this with them is just about the most gracious gift we have to offer. We give up what we think we should be doing, or think we need to get done, to keep them company.
In her book "Stitches: A Handbook on Meaning, Hope, and Repair," Anne Lamott emphasizes the importance of compassion and presence in times of sorrow. She illustrates how good people can provide comfort to those who are suffering by simply being there for them. Instead of offering empty reassurances or trying to "fix" their pain, we can honor their emotions by sharing in their grief and offering our company.
This act of support involves setting aside our own priorities and distractions to truly connect with those in distress. Lamott highlights that being present and acknowledging another’s deep suffering is one of the most valuable gifts we can offer. This dedication to share in another's pain reflects a profound grace and humanity in our interactions during difficult times.
