In her book "Stitches: A Handbook on Meaning, Hope, and Repair," Anne Lamott emphasizes the importance of compassion and presence in times of sorrow. She illustrates how good people can provide comfort to those who are suffering by simply being there for them. Instead of offering empty reassurances or trying to "fix" their pain, we can honor their emotions by sharing in their grief and offering our company.

This act of support involves setting aside our own priorities and distractions to truly connect with those in distress. Lamott highlights that being present and acknowledging another’s deep suffering is one of the most valuable gifts we can offer. This dedication to share in another's pain reflects a profound grace and humanity in our interactions during difficult times.