In her book "Hunger," author Roxane Gay expresses a deep discomfort she feels during television appearances when makeup is applied for public presentation. She compares the heavy application of makeup to wearing a mask, suggesting it makes her feel exposed and unworthy. This experience evokes feelings of vulnerability as she senses judgment from others, reinforcing her belief that any attempt to improve her appearance is futile.

Gay poignantly reflects on a past experience where she altered her looks for someone's approval, only to realize it wasn't satisfactory. This leads her to a powerful conclusion: she prefers the authenticity of her natural self over societal expectations. Ultimately, she emphasizes the importance of embracing one's true self, free from the pressures of external appearances.