"When love first happens, the individuals are giving each other energy unconsciously and both people feel buoyant and elated. That's the incredible high we call being 'in love.'" Unfortunately, as they expect this feeling solely from another person, they disconnect from the universal energy. This reliance causes them to cut off their own energy and become dependent on each other’s, which often leads to emotional struggles and attempts to control each other.

As a result, the initial harmony fades, and lovers may fall back into conflicts and dramas in their effort to regain the energy that once flowed freely. This cycle of dependence and control prevents genuine connection, illustrating how love is more about sharing universal energy than solely relying on a partner for happiness.