Mindy Kaling highlights the fear people often feel when someone else begins to succeed. Success can provoke envy or self-doubt in others, leading them to wish to undermine the achiever, as it serves as a reminder of their own unfulfilled aspirations. This societal reaction can be particularly strong when individuals are the subject of public interest, as seen in reality shows that focus on struggles rather than successes.

In her book "Why Not Me?", Kaling emphasizes that a small amount of bravery is essential when pursuing success. It’s crucial not to let the fears or negativity of others hinder your ambitions. Instead, one should remain focused on their path without being discouraged by those who may feel threatened by their achievements. Kaling encourages embracing one’s victories, regardless of the external pressures to conform or the fears of others.