In her book "Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith," Anne Lamott reflects on the nature of Jesus' teachings and why they promote simplicity and humility rather than control or obsession. She questions the idea of being overly fixated on what others do or say, suggesting that such behavior contradicts the core messages of love and acceptance found in faith. Instead of stressing over every detail, Lamott encourages embracing life with a lighter heart.

Lamott further explores the absurdities of human behavior, pointing out how people often retreat into petty grievances and indulgences, such as snacking on comfort food. She emphasizes that Jesus did not instruct us to be bogged down by negativity or to obsess over every small annoyance. This perspective promotes a more compassionate and joyful approach to life and relationships, letting go of unnecessary burdens.