In "Middle Age: A Romance," Joyce Carol Oates explores themes of perception and memory through the reflections of a character living in a stone house. The protagonist grapples with a disconnect between their internal and external experiences, questioning why they can only recall one perspective at a time. This creates a sense of dislocation and confusion, as they feel lost within the walls of their home, both literally and metaphorically.

The imagery of the back room and the windows' views highlights how fragmented their sense of self and environment has become. The character's struggle with their identity and surroundings illustrates a deep yearning for coherence, while also emphasizing the elusive nature of memory and the challenge of reconciling different facets of life. This internal conflict resonates with readers, inviting them to consider their own experiences of place and belonging.