In Mindy Kaling's book "Why Not Me?", she emphasizes the importance of hard work and expertise in achieving success. She advocates for individuals to dedicate themselves fully, possess a deep understanding of their craft, and confidently showcase their abilities. This approach fosters a sense of entitlement grounded in merit, which is crucial for navigating one’s professional journey.

Additionally, Kaling advises that one should selectively listen to advice, focusing only on insights from wise and compassionate individuals, who may not necessarily be parents. This selective listening can help individuals avoid distractions and stay aligned with their goals. By following this guidance, she believes that anyone can thrive in their personal and professional lives.