Mindy Kaling reflects on her journey of self-confidence in "Why Not Me?" She recalls that during the early stages of her career, she felt unsure of herself and believes that such feelings were justified. She expresses the view that confidence is not something one inherently deserves, but rather something that must be earned through experiences and efforts. This realization came to her only after some time had passed.

Kaling emphasizes her belief that everyone deserves basic human rights, such as dignity and the choice to watch content without interruption. However, she argues that beyond those fundamentals, a sense of entitlement to success or confidence needs to be cultivated, underscoring the importance of hard work and perseverance in achieving personal and professional growth.