In her book "Bird by Bird," Anne Lamott emphasizes the importance of selfless contribution in the writing process. She suggests that writers must constantly give of themselves and draw deeply from their inner experiences. This act of giving should be driven by a passion for sharing rather than seeking recognition or rewards. The essence of writing lies in the willingness to share one's thoughts and feelings with others.

Lamott notes that the act of publishing should not be the main focus for writers. Instead, the true fulfillment comes from the journey of giving and connecting through words. By prioritizing generosity over personal gain, writers can find deeper satisfaction and meaning in their craft. The experience of learning to be a giver in writing ultimately enriches their lives and the lives of their readers.