In "To Be Told" by Dan B. Allender, the author emphasizes the importance of embracing the challenges that arise in our lives, known as inciting events. These moments often require individuals to step out of their comfort zones to facilitate personal growth and advance their stories. Ignoring these events can lead to stagnation and an unwillingness to engage with one's own narrative.

Allender highlights that it is tempting to evade these significant moments, but doing so can prevent us from fully engaging with our life story. Facing these challenges is essential for transformation and discovery, underscoring the idea that meaningful stories often emerge from the sacrifices made in the pursuit of growth.