In Dan B. Allender's book "To Be Told: Know Your Story, Shape Your Future," the author explores the concept of shalom and how it is disrupted by sin. This disruption comes from lies and distortions of the truth that compromise our ability to be open and genuine with one another. When these intrusions occur, they damage our dignity and undermine the joy of living authentically.

Allender emphasizes that the shattering of shalom leads to division and destruction, introducing a sense of death into our lives. This assault on our dignity can create barriers that prevent us from fully embracing transparency and trust. The ongoing struggle against these forces is vital for reclaiming our true selves and restoring peace in our relationships.