In the book "The Ideal Man" by Julie Garwood, a poignant moment unfolds as one character reflects on the traditional approach to proposing marriage. Instead of announcing intentions, he emphasizes the importance of asking for her hand, showcasing respect and consideration. This highlights the emotional weight that such a moment holds.

As the scene progresses, there’s an attempt at intimacy when he tries to kiss her, but she shyly turns away. Instead, he affectionately kisses her earlobe, adding a layer of tenderness to the encounter. When she learns he spoke with her father about marriage, her surprise is palpable, especially upon hearing her father's humorous reluctance to endure another wedding.