In Sigrid Nunez's novel "The Friend," the narrator reflects on a comment made by a visitor who remarks that her home has a strong smell of dog. This remark highlights the challenges of owning a pet and the discomfort it can bring to social encounters. Instead of addressing the comment directly, the narrator chooses to avoid the visitor altogether, demonstrating a desire to protect her space and comfort. This response illustrates the complexities of personal relationships and how they can be influenced by our choices regarding companionship—both human and animal. The experience emphasizes the importance of creating an environment that feels safe and welcoming to oneself, even if it means severing ties with those who may not appreciate it.

In Sigrid Nunez's novel "The Friend," the narrator reflects on a comment made by a visitor who remarks that her home has a strong smell of dog. This remark highlights the challenges of owning a pet and the discomfort it can bring to social encounters. Instead of addressing the comment directly, the narrator chooses to avoid the visitor altogether, demonstrating a desire to protect her space and comfort.

This response illustrates the complexities of personal relationships and how they can be influenced by our choices regarding companionship—both human and animal. The experience emphasizes the importance of creating an environment that feels safe and welcoming to oneself, even if it means severing ties with those who may not appreciate it.