我也相信,如果父母爱你,他们会安全地阻止您,超过他们漩涡的水,有时这意味着您永远不会知道他们的经历,并且您可能会不善待他们,而您否则不会以某种方式对待他们。(I also believe that parents, if they love you, will hold you up safely, above their swirling waters, and sometimes that means you'll never know what they endured, and you may treat them unkindly, in a way you otherwise wouldn't.)