我的祖父母做了这些事情。我的父母也是。如果我拿出模式并将其扔掉，那对他们的生活有何评论？还是我的？这些仪式一代人是我们的保留方式……他滚动了手，寻找这个词。连接？我说。
(My grandparents did these things. My parents, too. If I take the pattern and throw it out, what does that say about their lives? Or mine? From generation to generation, these rituals are how we remain… He rolled his hand, searching for the word. Connected? I said.)