Roxane Gay, in her book "Bad Feminist," emphasizes the importance of self-reflection regarding the sacrifices we are willing to make for the benefit of society. She points out that individuals often overlook the personal cost of advocating for the greater good. This calls for a deeper commitment and consideration of how our actions can impact others positively.

Gay also critiques the expectation for role models to lead by example while we may possess the same capabilities. She challenges readers to recognize that each person has the potential to embody the change they wish to see, highlighting the responsibility we all share in promoting positive behaviors and advocating for collective progress.