A powerful way to overcome your fear of eye contact is to engage in the Smile and Hello Practice discussed earlier. This involves walking down a busy street and making eye contact with as many people as you can. You can get their attention by smiling and loudly saying hello! or hi there! You can also choose to increase eye contact with strangers throughout the day. You can experiment by looking at people's eyes as you walk down the street. If they return your gaze, you can simply smile and continue to look into their eyes as you walk past. In response to the thought of doing this experiment, your mind might be saying
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To overcome the fear of making eye contact, one effective technique is the Smile and Hello Practice. This method encourages individuals to walk through busy areas, actively making eye contact with as many people as possible while greeting them with a smile and a loud "hello!" This practice helps build confidence and gradually reduces anxiety associated with such interactions.

Additionally, incorporating eye contact with strangers into daily life can further ease apprehension. By looking into people's eyes as you stroll, and smiling if they meet your gaze, you can reinforce positive interactions. Though this might feel daunting at first, the gradual practice can help transform your mindset regarding social situations and enhance your overall social comfort, as detailed in Aziz Gazipura's book, "The Solution To Social Anxiety."

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