And my fear of failure has been lifelong and deep. If you are what you do- and I think my parents may have accidentally given me this idea- and you do poorly, what then? It's over; you're wiped out. All those prophecies you heard in the dark have come true, and people can see the real you, see what a schmendrick you are, what a fraud.
Anne Lamott expresses a profound and lasting fear of failure that has shaped her self-perception throughout her life. She reflects on the notion that our identities are tied to our actions, suggesting that if one fails, it leads to a loss of self-worth and feelings of being exposed as a fraud. This deep-seated fear comes from an internalized belief that failure would reveal one’s true inadequacies.
Such anxieties are compounded by the expectations and judgments of others, making the prospect of failing feel catastrophic. Lamott's insights resonate with anyone who has grappled with their self-esteem being tied to accomplishments, highlighting the emotional turmoil that comes with the fear of not fulfilling perceived potential.
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