But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you'll never see when you're with a guy who's really into you: You'll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. You'll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you're calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You'll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn't have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You'll be too busy being adored.
The authors of "He's Just Not That Into You," Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo, emphasize the importance of being in a relationship where you feel appreciated and valued. They suggest that when you're with someone who truly cares about you, you won't find yourself anxiously checking your phone or feeling the need to reach out constantly. This behavior often stems from insecurity, indicating that the relationship may not be healthy or mutual.
Instead, when you’re with the right person, your focus will shift away from those anxious thoughts and towards the joy of being cherished. You will find fulfillment in the relationship rather than feeling like you have to chase after someone's attention. Ultimately, the right partner will treat you with such respect that you can enjoy moments without anxiety or self-doubt.
