In Nora Ephron's "Heartburn," the narrator reflects on her married friends who have successful relationships despite not cooking. This observation leads her to question her own worth and appeal, as she ties her cooking ability to her desirability. She feels that being a good cook is an essential trait for being loved and appreciated.

This internal struggle reveals a deep-seated belief that skills like cooking define a woman's value in relationships. The narrator's insights highlight the societal pressures women face regarding domestic roles and self-worth, questioning whether love is contingent upon traditional expectations.