Grief, as I read somewhere once, is a lazy Susan. One day it is heavy and underwater, and the next day it spins and stops at loud and rageful, and the next day at wounded keening, and the next day numbness, silence.
In Anne Lamott's "Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith," the author presents a vivid metaphor for grief, describing it as a lazy Susan. This imagery illustrates the unpredictable nature of grief, where one's emotional state can shift drastically from day to day. One moment, grief can feel all-consuming and deep, while the next, it may erupt into anger, or transform into a heart-wrenching sorrow.
Lamott highlights the complexity of mourning, emphasizing how it can manifest in various forms—ranging from intense pain to numbness or silence. This exploration of grief captures the essence of how personal loss is experienced uniquely, reflecting the changing and often chaotic journey of healing.