In her memoir "Hunger," Roxane Gay reflects on the importance of kindness and friendship in her life. One poignant moment reveals her surprise at encountering a young man who offered her true friendship without expecting anything in return. This act of kindness was not just refreshing but also transformative for her, challenging her perceptions of relationships and interactions.

Gay's experience highlights the significance of genuine connections and the impact they can have on an individual’s perspective. The realization that kindness exists in unexpected places serves as a powerful reminder of the value of compassion in human relationships.