In "Memories of a Catholic Girlhood," Mary McCarthy describes the feeling of being trapped in a dilemma that becomes all too common in adulthood. She portrays the struggle of recognizing the complexities of life, where both sides present valid arguments. This realization leaves one feeling powerless, caught in a tension between conflicting decisions.

McCarthy reflects on her experience of compromising in such situations. This compromise highlights a recurring theme in her life and the struggle many face when navigating the challenges and constraints of adult responsibilities and choices. The introspection reveals a deeper understanding of the adult condition and the balancing act required to manage life's uncertainties.