Anne Lamott, in her book "Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith," reflects on the importance of family bonds, emphasizing that despite the quirks and frustrations of family members, these relationships provide a unique comfort. The familiarity of family means that individuals can be more authentic, shedding the facades often necessary in broader social interactions.

Lamott suggests that the shared experiences, including the difficult and embarrassing moments, foster a sense of acceptance. This dynamic allows individuals to feel safe and be themselves without the pressure of maintaining a perfect image, as their families are the ones who have witnessed their true selves, faults and all.