Diana Gabaldon, in her book "I Give You My Body . . .," emphasizes the importance of simplicity and restraint in writing, particularly in sex scenes. She draws a parallel between effective advertisement design and storytelling, suggesting that just as advertisements benefit from ample white space, a compelling scene should avoid unnecessary complexity. This approach allows the essence of the scene to resonate more deeply with the audience.

Gabaldon advocates for showing rather than telling, urging writers to present moments in a straightforward manner. By stripping away excess detail, the emotional impact of the scene is heightened, allowing readers to engage more fully with the characters and their experiences. This minimalist approach can enhance the authenticity of intimate moments, making them more relatable and poignant for the audience.