When a shiny man tries to seduce a woman, she has the impression that she enters into competition, she is also forced to shine, and does not give herself without resistance. While the banality liberates it, stripping it of caution. Do not require any attendance at the usuria, make it indifferent and then easy to reach
In Milan Kundera's "The Festival of Insignificance," the dynamics of attraction are explored through the interaction between a charismatic man and a woman. The woman feels pressured to compete for the man's attention, leading to a struggle where she must enhance her own allure rather than freely engaging with him. This competitive atmosphere creates a barrier that complicates her feelings and actions, as she does not wish to surrender entirely without reservation.
Conversely, when the encounter lacks significance, the woman feels liberated. The mundanity of the interaction strips her of her defenses, allowing her to respond with ease and openness. There are no expectations or demands, making the experience straightforward and approachable. Kundera highlights the contrast between this liberating banality and the often overwhelming nature of romantic competition, suggesting that simplicity can lead to more genuine connections.
