Let's not get bogged down on whom or what we pray to. let's just say prayer is a communication from our hearts to the great mystery, or Goodness, or Howard; to the animating energy of love we are sometimes bold enough to believe in; to something unimaginably big, and not us. we could call this force Not Me, and Not Preachers Onstage with a Choir of 800. or for convenience we could just say "God".
Anne Lamott, in her book "Help Thanks Wow: The Three Essential Prayers," emphasizes that the essence of prayer lies not in the specifics of whom or what we pray to, but rather in the act of communicating from our hearts to a greater mystery or force. She presents the idea of this powerful energy as something immense, distinctly separate from ourselves, and interpretable in various ways—whether as goodness, love, or simply as "Not Me."
Lamott encourages us to strip away the complexities and labels often attached to prayer, suggesting that we can define this force as "God" for simplicity’s sake. The important aspect is the connection and communication we seek, focusing on the heartfelt essence of prayer rather than the doctrine or the grandeur often associated with organized religion.
