Mavis reminisces about a past relationship with a man who had a quirky appearance, resembling a garden gnome. Despite his unusual looks, she recalls that he was surprisingly intense and energetic in their encounters, describing him as having the wildness of a rabid mink. This reflects the idea that outward appearances can be deceiving, as someone's personality and behavior may vastly differ from what they seem at first glance.

This notion of not judging based on looks is a recurring theme in "Calculated in Death" by J.D. Robb. The story emphasizes the complexity of individuals, reinforcing the idea that true character and compatibility go beyond superficial judgments. Mavis's experience serves as a humorous reminder that relationships are often more about the connection shared than mere physical attributes.