In Dan B. Allender's book "To Be Told," the author emphasizes the connection between our values, beliefs, and actions. He argues that our ideal self is reflected in what we are passionate about, how we interpret the world, and the actions we take to align with our ideals. This intimate relationship highlights that our behaviors serve as a true representation of what we genuinely value in life.

Allender's perspective suggests that our passions and beliefs are not just abstract concepts but are instead manifested through our daily actions. By reflecting on what we do, we can gain insight into our core values and how closely they align with our ideal self. This alignment reveals the importance of living authentically and intentionally according to what we truly hold dear.