In Milan Kundera's "The Joke," the narrator reflects on the profound disconnect between their self-perception and how society views them. They recognize that the image of their personality, established by societal expectations, is beyond their control. This realization emphasizes a deep sense of identity crisis, where the narrator feels more authentic and real than the persona that others perceive. They grapple with feelings of guilt and accountability for not matching this imposed ideal.

Despite this internal struggle, the narrator expresses a desire to resist surrendering to the societal narrative. They are determined to shoulder the burden of their individuality—this 'uninvitatory' identity that society has rejected. This determination symbolizes a refusal to conform to the expectations of others, highlighting the tension between personal authenticity and societal pressures. The struggle to maintain one’s true self amidst external judgment encapsulates the essence of the human experience.