In her book "The Year of Magical Thinking," Joan Didion explores the profound sense of confusion and despair that arises when faced with unexpected loss. She reflects on the shock that comes when everything appears stable, yet life suddenly changes dramatically. This turmoil breeds a feeling of helplessness that can't easily be articulated, as the question of 'how could this happen' resonates deeply within the grieving process.

Didion conveys that this questioning is akin to a desperate plea for understanding in the face of uncontrollable events. It underscores the emotional chaos that follows a tragedy, highlighting the struggle to accept and process a reality that seems incomprehensible. Through her poignant reflections, she invites readers to engage with the complexity of grief and the longing for normalcy amidst overwhelming pain.