Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish; but wish the things which happen to be as they are, and you will have a tranquil flow of life. IX
In the teachings of Epictetus, he emphasizes the importance of accepting life's events as they unfold rather than wishing for them to be different. He suggests that one cannot control external circumstances, but can regulate their own reactions and thoughts about those situations. This acceptance leads to inner peace and a more serene existence.
By wishing for reality to align with our desires, we invite frustration and turmoil into our lives....