sheltered. I knew nothing about anything. I didn't know I could suffer or the breadth and scope of what suffering could be. I didn't know that I could give voice to my suffering when I did suffer. I didn't know there were better ways to deal with my suffering. Of all the things I wish I knew then that I know now, I wish I had known I could talk to my parents and get help, and turn to something other than food.
In her book "Hunger," Roxane Gay reflects on her past ignorance regarding suffering and how it impacted her life. She expresses regret over not understanding the complexities of suffering or realizing that it could be vocalized. This lack of awareness left her feeling isolated and unable to seek help during difficult times.
Gay acknowledges that she was sheltered from the realities of life, which hindered her ability to cope effectively with her struggles. She emphasizes the importance of communication, particularly with her parents, and wishes she had recognized that there were healthier avenues available to address her pain instead of resorting to food for comfort.
