The narrator experiences an awkward moment when they realize they have been staring too intently. This leads to an impulsive question about romantic experiences, specifically about being kissed by a beautiful young girl. The narrator feels embarrassed and flustered, indicating the social discomfort of the situation.

The response from the man is light-hearted and teasing as he laughs and shares that he has indeed had many kisses but suggests that they do not contribute to his current state of being. His playful tone implies a sense of resignation or irony, which adds to the humor of the interaction between the characters in "Dragonfly in Amber."