So we grow up in a sea of stories told in a way that fits what we want others to know about us. The stories told in most families are a kind of propaganda. The tragedy is that often these stories are simply a form of dis-information...But our families name us without knowing the consequences. So our life is a journey to discover our true name, though; sadly many of us never choose to begin that search.
In "To Be Told: Know Your Story, Shape Your Future," Dan B. Allender reflects on how the narratives we grow up with are often designed to shape the perceptions of ourselves and those around us. These familial stories serve as a form of propaganda, crafting a version of reality that may not be accurate, leading to a cycle of misinformation. Our identities are heavily influenced by the labels and narratives provided by our families, which can have lasting impacts throughout our lives.
The journey of self-discovery involves unraveling these imposed narratives to find our true selves, or as Allender puts it, to discover our "true name." This quest is vital for personal growth; however, many individuals do not take the courageous step to embark on this journey. Consequently, they may remain trapped by the limitations of their family's stories instead of exploring their authentic identities.