In her book "The Art of Communication," Susan C. Young emphasizes that inclusion in social or professional circles often requires a certain level of earned respect and familiarity. Simply seeking to fit in without this foundation can lead to an impression of being intrusive or overly eager, which may alienate others instead of fostering connection.

Young's insights highlight the importance of building relationships gradually. Gaining trust and credibility is essential for effective communication and fostering meaningful interactions. By earning the right to be included, individuals can engage more authentically and positively influence their relationships.