The relationship between Redse and Jobs was tumultuous over the span of five years. Redse found it difficult to live in her minimalist Woodside home, which lacked personal touches and comfort. The presence of a young couple hired by Jobs to serve as housekeepers and cooks further complicated her feelings, as they made her feel out of place in her own life.

At times, Redse chose to escape this discomfort by moving into an apartment, seeking solace away from the tensions at home. This struggle highlighted the challenges she faced while trying to maintain her identity and sense of belonging amidst the changes imposed by Jobs's lifestyle and choices.