In the context of modern parenting, there is a growing fear among adults about discipline and control over their children. Many parents feel hesitant to chastise their kids or impose reasoning, afraid that doing so might lead to conflict or rebellion. This reflects a shift in dynamics where children seem to hold an unexpected amount of authority, challenging traditional roles within the family structure.

Mary contemplates her diminishing role in guiding her children, feeling as if her advice has become irrelevant. She questions the shift in power dynamics, worried about how and when children gained the autonomy to operate by their own rules, leaving her and others in a position of doubt regarding their parental authority.