Your purpose could simply be to enjoy yourself, to fully listen to another person and hear about her life, or to share something interesting with someone else. Your purpose could be vulnerability and authenticity, or to tell the other person how you honestly feel. Notice how these types of outcomes are not manipulative. In reality, they are often mutually beneficial. When your purpose is focused on the other person, or on connecting, you will most likely be more present and able to relate to them in a relaxed, confident manner.
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Understanding your purpose in social interactions can lead to more meaningful connections. Your intention might simply be to enjoy your time, actively listen to someone else's story, or share interesting insights. These goals emphasize genuine connection rather than manipulation and can benefit both parties involved. By focusing on the other person, you foster an environment that encourages authenticity and vulnerability.

When you prioritize connecting with others, it allows you to be more present and relatable. This relaxed approach can enhance your confidence and engagement in conversations. As suggested by Aziz Gazipura in "The Solution to Social Anxiety," shifting your focus from how you are perceived to how you can contribute to the interaction cultivates a more enjoyable and fulfilling experience for everyone involved.

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