约翰与吸盘不同。当您与吸盘一起使用时，您一直在警惕。你什么都不给他。傻瓜只是要去，但约翰是不同的。你给他他付的东西。当您和他在一起时，您会享受自己，您也希望他也喜欢自己。
(A John is different from a sucker. When you're with a sucker you're on alert all the time. You give him nothing. A sucker is just to be taken but a John is different. You give him what he pays for. When you're with him you enjoy yourself and you want him to enjoy himself too.)