当我看到它们时，我需要学会识别和识别这些危险迹象，而不是将它们作为怪异，可爱的奇怪之处或他哭泣寻求帮助的迹象，并为相互依存的养育者感到安慰，只有我，只有我，公主启用者才能提供。坏男朋友不会掩饰自己；他们的女友为他们做。
(I need to learn to recognize and identify these danger signs when I see them, and not brush them off as eccentricities, lovable oddities, or a sign that he s crying out for help and the comforting of a codependent nurturer that only I, Princess Enabler, can provide. Bad boyfriends don't disguise themselves; their girlfriends do it for them.)