如果您坚持情绪 - 如果您不允许自己一直穿过它们，那么您永远不会被超越，那么您太忙于害怕。您害怕痛苦，害怕悲伤。您担心爱的脆弱性。
(If you hold back on the emotions-if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them-you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the pain, you're afraid of the grief. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails.)