当你所爱的人去世时,情况就不一样了。死亡有一种可怕的结局。但这是最终的。结束。还有葬礼、家庭聚会、悲伤,所有这些必要的仪式。相信我,他们会提供帮助。当你所爱的对象突然消失时,你就无法应对悲伤和痛苦。
(It's different when the person you love dies. There's an awful finality to death. But it is final. The end. And there's the funeral, family gatherings, grieving, all of those necessary rituals. And they help, believe me. When the object of your love just disappears, there's no way to deal with the grief and pain.)