最近失去某人的人可以看出一定的外观，也许只对那些看过自己脸的人。我已经注意到了它，现在我注意到了其他人。外观是极端脆弱性，裸露性，开放性的一种。
(People who have recently lost someone have a certain look, recognizable maybe only to those who have seen that look on their own faces. I have noticed it on my face and I notice it now on others. The look is one of extreme vulnerability, nakedness, openness.)