她一直认为，对他人讨厌或不友善的人之所以这样，是因为他们的生活中有问题，而且生活中有问题的人不应该被鄙视或讨厌，而是要可怜。所以
(She had always believed that people who were nasty or unkind to others were only like that because there was something wrong in their lives, and that people who had something wrong in their lives were not to be despised or hated, but were to be pitied. So)