为一个女人带来任何情感爱，或为亲人而悲伤，或者我正在经历的事情，恐惧和痛苦。如果您坚持情绪 - 如果您不允许自己一直穿过它们，那么您永远不会被超越，那么您太忙于害怕。您担心爱的脆弱性。
(Take any emotion-love for a woman, or grief for a loved one, or what I'm going through, fear and pain from a deadly illness. If you hold back on the emotions-if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them-you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid. You're afraid of the vulnerability that loving entails.)