在恋爱关系中，您可以期望的最好的方法是找到令人不安的缺点的人。寻找没有缺陷的人或能够发生重大变化的人是很富裕的。只有在我们的想象中，这种personexist。
(The best you can hope for in a relationship is to findsomeone whose flaws are the sort you don't mind. It isfutile to look for someone who has no flaws, or someonewho is capable of significant change; that sort of personexists only in our imaginations.)